These changes shatter her idea of herself, and she feels adrift. Without her job, she finds herself pulled along by her husband’s desires, like moving to a suburb away from her beloved NYC and career, and the mounting pressures from her husband and family to have a child. While Alice lives more than 60 years later and some societal mores have changed, such as women working outside of the home, the notion of the “good wife” still emerges and frustrates Alice. Nellie is practically Betty Friedan’s housewife in The Feminine Mystique, excelling at all the arts of the home as well as being the obedient housewife. Brown’s inclusion of quotations from housekeeping manuals helps to underscore the many real expectations that society has had about wives, such as keeping your husband happy at all costs and being subservient to his sexual needs. In the process, Alice realize that her own seemingly happy marriage has fault lines, with secrets between her and Nate.Īt its core, the book explores the concept of the perfect wife through the intertwined narratives of Alice and Nellie, who are separated by more than half a century. With the help of her new neighbor friend, Alice starts digging into Nellie’s life, finding hints of a darker, more tragic side. Alice’s chapters start with advice from 20th-century housewife manuals, while Nellie’s chapters start with her recipes, presumably from her cookbook. Each chapter alternates between the lives of these two women and their lives in the same home. Nellie is the seemingly perfect 1950s housewife: cultivating a beautiful garden, and gifted with both culinary skills and an attractive and hardworking husband, Richard. Alice becomes intrigued with the recipes and with Nellie herself. As she figures out her next steps, she stumbles upon the cookbook of the home’s prior occupant, Nellie Murdoch, in the basement. She’s also on the fence about whether she’s ready for motherhood. She’s ostensibly working on a book, but she’s missing everything about her former life in New York City. But the transition is not going well for Alice. Nate sees the move as the perfect opportunity to start having children. Alice Hale quits her high-powered public-relations job when her husband, Nate, convinces her to move to a fixer-upper in the suburbs of New York City.

Recipe for perfect wife